Say goodbye and hello. Before the move, give your children an opportunity to spend time with their friends to say goodbye. Mayflower has a special moving kit for children that includes fun cards that kids can use to exchange address information with friends. If possible, take the children to see their new home and neighborhood in advance. Introducing your children to their new neighbors will reassure them that they will make new friends after the move. If it is not possible to go to your new neighborhood, try to compile as much information about the area as you can. The Internet can offer a wealth of resources. Also, try to get a couple of photographs of your new home and surroundings (ask your real estate agent to help), and share all of the information with your children.
Get involved. One of the best ways to make new friends and adjust to new surroundings is to get involved in extracurricular activities. Even if you're moving in the middle of a season, don't sit on the sidelines. Many sports leagues, community kids' clubs and classes specific to your children's interests will keep them busy and make them feel more at home in their new surroundings.